STORIES

In a blink of an eye, 2020 is drawing to a close and it was an unarguably stressful year for many ever since the pandemic outbreak. Instead of focusing on the negative, we should remind ourselves that every dark cloud has a silver lining. Our daily schedules came to a halt as we lived the past few months cooped up in lockdowns but despite all that, it has given us the luxury to spend more quality time with our family, purse new hobbies and to appreciate the simpler things in life.

In this article, our CYNTHIA & XIAO community is here to share how the events of the past year have changed their mindsets and tips on how to stay positive during the pandemic.

Life is too short to be an adult all the time…

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So be childlike!

Don’t mistake it for childishness, these are two very different types of behaviours. Instead, we’re referring to the curious nature and imaginative minds that children possess, their carefree attitude and generosity.

Children find happiness in the smallest things and have no judgements of why things are so. Despite their occasional tantrums, their innocence and sweet loving nature brings a smile to every parent’s face.

 Like every child, CYNTHIA & XIAO believes in mystical creatures and imaginary friends because not everything has to have an explanation :) We find that keeping our childlike spirit alive helps to spur our imaginations, allowing us to create without limitations.

Along with the launch of our AW20 kids’ collection, we have gathered 5 mommies to share stories on how their children have inspired them and brought joy into their lives.

“Their carefree spirit and creativity remind us to let go, be more present and enjoy life.”

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ZACHARIE

How do your children inspire you?

My kids inspire me to be even more aware of my actions and words and to continuously reflect on who I am as a person. They are mirror images of who I am. When they see me not giving up, they learn to be persistent and to always try their best. When they see me greet the people in our building every day, they learn to be kind to everyone. When they watch me solve problems strategically, they learn to think outside the box. Their curiosities about the world motivate me to continue to learn and try new things

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Tell us about a favourite moment with your Zacharie

After a long day at Disneyland, we were on the train back home. At one of the stops, he saw an elderly man get on and he immediately jumped off his seat and offered it. The elderly man initially refused to take the seat but my son persisted and said, ‘It’s okay, I can stand. But you will get tired easily if you have to stand too long.

- Anita

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FORREST & CALLIE

How do your children inspire you?

Their carefree spirit and creativity remind us to let go, be more present and enjoy life. They are so happy with simple things and as adults we often lose sight of that. It is the little things and mindful quality time that matters the most!

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Tell us one thing that your children did that made your day

When they have had an amazing day and they show gratitude and love towards us and each other.

Can you describe the relationship between Forrest and Callie?

Although they have completely opposite personalities, they love each other a lot and definitely have each other’s backs.

- Heide

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“Their curiosities about the world motivate me to continue to learn and try new things.”

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CASEY

How does your Casey inspire you?

Casey is always curious about everything and extremely keen in learning. It motivates me to expand my knowledge so that I can teach him more. Raising Casey and our youngest son Mason has given me the patience to nurture a child.

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Tell us about a favourite moment with Casey

Once, Casey and I just looked at each other and we had an instant telepathy. Only Casey and I knew what we were thinking (not even his dad). We both gave each other a cheeky smile.

- Lillian

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SATIATOU

Tell us one thing that your child does to make your day

When she is grateful towards me and expresses her content with what she has

 

Name one thing that your child loves to do

She enjoys rolling on the grass or floor while letting out big laughs.

- Jojo

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SIENA

How does your child inspire you?

My daughter’s creativity inspires me. She enjoys mixing and matching her clothes and is very particular about her choice of shoes every day.

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Name one thing that your child loves to do

She enjoys putting random things into a bag and giving it to me as a present.

-Joey


As we enter adulthood, we gradually lose our childlike nature and begin to seek for certainty and control over our lives. However, we believe that keeping our childlike traits even as we grow older is essential for a happier and more fulfilling life. Here are three simple ways to make you live, laugh and love like a child again –

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01. BE CURIOUS

As we enter adulthood, we gradually lose our childlike nature and begin to seek for certainty and control over our lives. However, we believe that keeping our childlike traits even as we grow older is essential for a happier and more fulfilling life. Here are three simple ways to make you live, laugh and love like a child again –

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02. BE SILLY

Children are clear with their preferences and are unfazed by what others think of them. In the same manner, we should learn to ignore the norms of society, the fear of looking foolish to others and just let loose and have fun. Don’t take life so seriously and live in the moment, you might be able to discover happiness in unexpected places.

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03. BE KIND

Children are extremely generous with their love and are not shy about going up to greet a complete stranger. This is a lesson that we should learn from children, to accept and embrace others with grace and without judgement. When we start to pay less attention to ourselves and focus on doing good to others, it also helps to break free from our own problems. A simple eye contact and smile can give others a boost of happiness.

LET'S BE INSPIRED BY ONE ANOTHER ❤️